Once I learned these nine moves, I was able to support women and have some of their deepest and most expensive orgasms of their entire lives. So if you want to become a master and stimulate her clitoris and make her heart scream and pleasure, you are definitely in the right place. it’s important to know that up to eighty percent of women do not orgasm from vagina penetration alone. And this means that most women, need their clitoris stimulated to reach climax. So these skills and moves are extremely important to learn. So let’s jump on how you can become a master of clitoris stimulation and nine moves that will make her go absolutely crazy with pleasure and make sure you’ll use the ground for a number nine.
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NO.1, Teasing Over the Pants
Foreplay is so crucial when it comes to touching a woman’s vulva. And it’s important to explore her entire body and work from the outside in, so take it slow and tease the absolute life of her. And part of these teases can be using your entire hand to cup and pump her vulva over the pants. This is nothing super focused on our clitoris, no direct simulator. Just a general pressure and massage to warm up her entire vulva. This will start to get her clitoris excited and wet and get her more ready for direct simulation.
Please be hygienic by washing your hands before any stimulation. Trimming your fingers to make sure they are nice and smooth. And having your favorite loop ready and available on the nightstand.
No.2, Massaging The Clitoral Hood Once Her Panties Are Off
Once her panties are off, you can now start teasing her pubic area and clitoral mount. You can put some of your favorite loops on your finger.
The biggest mistake guys make when it comes to stimulation is going straight for the glans clitoris. It is a big bad idea to do this. Some women are very sensitive and it can cause them pain, which may hurt them and totally kill the mood.
Instead, start by stimulating the clitoral hood. This is a great way to indirectly stimulate the female clitoris. It will give her time to become fully engorged. You can also stimulate her clitoris using the pads of your thumb or pointer finger in a gentle upward and downward motion.
Ask her to tell you how she feels as you massage it. Ask her to guide you as you explore different sensations and feelings. Maybe she wants slower, faster, or softer, harder. Let her be your guide and listen to her carefully, not just to her words but to her body language. This will enable you to assist her in the most enjoyable orgasm.
No.3, Massage the Legs of The Clitoris
The clitoris, or the little ball-shaped piece at the top of your vaginal opening is often misunderstood by many people. The clitoris has legs and balls which extend into the vulva. It can be stimulated also by massaging both the outer and the inner labia.
Next, take your hand. Use your ring and pointer fingers to wrap slowly around her outer labia. You will be interacting with her clitoris balls and legs. You can apply a little more pressure to her out labia and wrap it up and down.
You can also put all your fingers together and sweep in a circle. This will make her feel super pampered and even start to get her wet.
No.4, Breathe on Her Clitoris
I want you to kiss her and use your tongue around her out labia. You can also tease her by getting close to her clitoris and then pulling away. You need to be super close. Your lips should almost touch her clitoris. Let her feel the heat of your breath, very close to her clitoris. Just a centimeter away, get super close. She’s desperate for you to lick her. Just breathe on it, and tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her you love her and you are eager to taste and lick her. Your breath will make her want you more. She will be throwing her hips at you to try and get you to lick her goodness.
NO.5, The Up and Down
Keep your lips super close to her clitoris, and then use the middle finger’s finger pad to run it down from her clitoral hood. Lift your finger off if her clitoral glans are just exposed and visible. You don’t want to touch her bare clitoris, so you run your finger along her vaginal opening all the way down to her vulva.
Then, super tease and lift your finger in the same manner. You can bump into the vaginal walls on your way to the top, then gently lift your finger the same way. She is almost ready for her clitoral stimulation without direct stimulation.
NO.6, Use Your Tongue
It is best to use a soft, wet, and slick tongue when touching and exposing the bare clitoris. Pull back the clitoral hood to reveal her bare clitoris.
Then, use the middle flat part of the tongue. You can lick her bare clitoris very gently from the bottom up. Slowly, gental and careful are the keys. And ask her what she thinks and be gentle to get her reaction, you can feel and you can ask her to see how she likes it, let her guide you, and use your tongue to give her favorite pressure and strokes. Make sure not to use the tip of your tongue. You don’t want your tongue to be dart at her clit.
You should be very gentle, super soft, and as tease her as you can. When she has found what she likes use consistent pressure, and don’t change it when she gets close. Keep it where you are. She might be able to get an organism from just this.
No.7, Side by Side at This Time
If she hasn’t already experienced an orgasm. Her clit will be fully engorged. You can now explore a more intensive simulation to try and bring it to her life. The side-to-side technique involves a diagonal or side-to-side motion, with more pressure and speed.
You are getting close. The clitoris will be opened. Still, don’t touch that bare-glans clitoris. Instead, apply rhythmic pressure to the clitoris and ask her how she feels. Ask her ‘How is the pressure, would you like a faster, slower and don’t be afraid’, put her hand on yours and show you exactly what she wants this will ensure you give her exactly what she wants and give her the best experience possible.
No. 8, Direct Stimulation
Some women are extremely sensitive to direct stimulation with the fingers. Proceed with extreme caution.
Start with a fantastic touch. Some women even couldn’t take that further direct stimulation. It was just too sensitive. Other women may ask you to bite her clitoris.
It’s important to ask her and let her tell how she wants the direct simulation on her clit. If she’s a woman that can take direct stimulation to her clitoris. You can go really light. You can swipe from left to right, and you should do short strokes. You can also do the hand cap on top. You can also stroke down from the top, and then swipe up again. Always ask your partner what she feels and check-in.
Don’t be afraid to ask her to show you exactly what she wants to do with her fingers, and then make them yourself. Most men are too proud to do this, but you will be a great lover if you do. You can do it if you’re willing. Now.
NO.9, Heart Opener
My secret move will make her tell all her friends about how great you are when you’re in bed. The nine is a heart opener.
You can use the hand pump to cover her entire vulva and vibrate it while holding her. The hill of your hand is at the clitoris. The fingers cover her from an inner labia. If she has already experienced an orgasm you start vibrating your hand and pumping. This mood can quickly bring her back to orgasm and turn into multiple orgasms.
Check-in to make sure that she is not overly sensitive after the orgasm. This one usually leads to a second orgasm. It’s time for the heart to open. This is a move where you put your hand on her vulva again with the middle of your pump and the heat of your hand on her clitoris.
But this time your fingers will be the other way. Pointing up and resting on her pubic, you will be holding her vulva with one hand and placing your other hand on her heart. And just hold her and allow her to feel your safety and protection and send all of your love through your hands into her heart, you can rock the hill of your hand on her clitoris of little bit.
You can either use the same vibration or hold her still. The active holding your partner after orgasm and holding her heart and pussy at the same time, and be extremely intense.
And that is above itself, all in a deep, orgasm again. But after this experience, make sure you thank her and thank her for sharing her pleasure with you and for allowing you to be so intimate with her and her body. But if she had orgasms you are so grateful that she was willing to share her orgasms with you. And how much you love seeing her orgasm and how beautiful she is.
When she hasn’t orgasm be sure to hold her and console her if she wants that. Or to give her space, if she wants to just be in her own bliss.
Okay, so now, you know, my nine moves to make her absolutely scream in pleasure and how you can become a master of clitoris stimulation. And if you use any of these techniques, I would love to hear from you in the comment section below.